One of the best parts of my job is styling engagement sessions. They are each so unique to that couple's own style and love story. I am often asked, 'What is the best thing to wear during an engagement shoot?'
Consider Location and Climate:
I live in Florida, which means as much as I love pea coats and cozy sweaters, they are hardly ever the practical choice. Think about what will make you feel pretty and handsome, yet comfortable for at least 3 hours. As far as location goes, if your vision is to climb the tree where the proposal took place, a mini skirt may not work. Consider instead a maxi dress that is easy to move in, while still providing a dramatic or ethereal element.
Consider Your Style:
Think about your personal style. What does your home look like, what would you be excited to frame and hang on your wall? I've seen everything from bathing suits, jean shorts and a striped v-neck, to formal gowns. I love them all. Having your picture taken for 3 hours isn't always the most natural feeling, even if you know the photographer. If I wore heels during my session I would have been so focused on not toppling over that going barefoot was the practical choice for me. If you feel confident in what you are wearing you'll be focused on the moment rather than that tight itchy waistband.
Consider Your Partner:
Do not match. Instead, compliment. A formal gown wouldn't make sense with a pair of cargo shorts and a white t-shirt. Maybe one of the stripes in your partner's check is the same color as your flower crown. Having subtle similarities can add cohesion to the pictures, without risking a prom moment.
Consider Your Props:
The styling doesn't end at the clothing. Many shoots I have styled feature furniture, textiles such as blankets, pillows, flowers, books, chandeliers, you name it. When we shot our engagement session I knew I wanted to evoke the whimsy found in the pages of my mom's old fairytale Golden Books. The book's illustrations and the props I brought along were colorful and graphic. Therefore, Glen and I chose to wear neutral colors of cream, blush, grey, and khaki allowing the props and the fairytales to shine.
Consider Going Bridal:
How many times in your life do you get to wear white lace head to toe and have it looked at as perfectly normal? Not often. I always encourage brides to embrace their bridal style throughout their engagement. Intricate beading, lace, white dresses, tulle, diamonds, full skirts, and sashes are all items and textures I strongly support.
Consider a Flower Crown:
There's just something about flowers wrapped in a circle and placed on top of your hair that will make almost any girl happy. Skeptical? Just try it; you'll begin to wonder if wearing one to work is within the dress code.
At the end of the day remember that this session is supposed to be an adventure in love. You are capturing the beginning of your lifetime together. Soak it all in and be sure to wear something you won't find in your closet - a smile.Jenny of Jenny Does Weddings is a blogger, wedding planner, and stylist who can be found spending her weekdays blogging and her weekends' thrifting.